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+title = 'FirstYear'
+date = 2024-11-10T15:56:46-05:00
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+I've been presenting myself as Violette for bit over a year now. All people here
+know me only with only this name. It is kinda hard to believe it has not always
+been this way. Here is a little list of things that I have learned during this time.
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+To add more context, im a french transfem living in Montreal. I worked in IT
+openly as a transfem for about a year.
+
+## Cis people either do not give a shit or care way too much
+In my experience, people do not really care about how you present yourself.
+At most, you get a few looks, but most people will not confront you about it.
+
+## finding a new family
+I have been somewhat ostracized from my family. Both my brothers now either
+dodge all interactions i could have had with them, and my parents really
+hate all trans-related subject. I have become the person they try to avoid.
+So I had to build a new family of my own. I found new people that i felt
+comfy around, new friends, and a partner.
+It felt very weird to just be around people that would not constantly
+judge you for your (questionable) fashion choices, or whatever
+